Rooted in Grace                                     "Be loved and love well"                                               Issue 03

When we meet the disciples in Matthew 14, in the midst of a storm, they became fearful even after seeing miracle after miracle. Jesus had just fed the 5,000. Jesus immediately responds to their fear, "Take courage! It is I. Don't be afraid." And of course, Peter, who was full of a sincere desire to do mighty things for Jesus, gets out of the boat and tries to walk to Jesus across the water. "But when he (Peter) saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, "Lord, save me!" Immediately, Jesus reached out his hand and caught him (see verses 22-31).

What are you afraid of right now? In the midst of this incredible storm we are all in: a world pandemic, economic unrest, racial tension, and an election year with little to no leadership we can trust. Not to mention a struggling marriage, unconventional school, and children who need us to lead them well. What are you afraid of right now? Name it. Then look up and take Jesus' hand, who is ready to catch you. Take courage and remember who He is. Remember what He does - especially when you feel like you are drowning. Take courage!

Because of Grace,
Jeff & Terra

Words of Love
"I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit"
- Romans 15:13
Did you know that Founders Jeff & Terra Mattson have pictures of you in their home office, along with a map pinning the current CG Groups from all over the globe? Our CG Community spans from South Africa to Canada to Australia to Romania to the US and beyond and it is our honor, as the leadership team, to pray for you by name. 

Would you send us a picture of your CG group to add to our wall of prayer? Email a pic or share your prayer requests to The CG Prayer Team is honored to pray for you. 

As Courageous Girls is growing and the new year approaches, we are looking forward to implementing some new initiatives. If you have any ideas about how we can better support you this coming year, please email your insights to and we will take those into prayerful consideration.


Did you know that hope is more contagious than any other contagion? Hope. It is such a small word, but it carries so much meaning and depth within the framework of our faith. In Hebrews 11:1 "Faith shows the reality of what we hope for; it is the evidence of things we cannot see." Hope can be reminding our children (and ourselves) that God has us in His Hand and will never leave us. No matter how messy or hard a situation, God is bigger. We are given Hope when we remember that "His mercies are new every morning." (Lamentations 3:23)

In a season of tangible and perpetual unknowns, take time as a family to write down what you do KNOW about God, yourselves, and your hope. Write them on a board and put them near the dinner table. Take time to write them in a journal and share them out loud. Our children need to hear what we are hopeful for even in the midst of all the hard. Affirm who they are, affirm who God is, and affirm who you are, despite our circumstances right now. 



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CG Mamas,  we wanted to share about an incredible opportunity for our CG community to wrap our arms and hearts through a tangible gift of a new pair of The Shoe That Grows for refugee families in Bangladesh, Tanzania, and Afghanistan. 

During the month of November, Courageous Girls groups around the globe will be uniting to show God's love through raising funds for 350 pairs of The Show That Grows through Because International.

With COVID greatly impacting donations for Because International the needs are high for refugee children and adults who are in need of a pair of shoes.

When you buy any CG swag, 20% of all proceeds will go toward our goal of 350 shoes through the month of November.

Grab some swag and help others at the same time!


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It is our desire to love and equip our CG community of mamas and daughters around the globe wholly and fully, which includes ensuring we are sharing stories and resources that encompass all backgrounds and abilities of our CG community.

Resources to READ this month:  .

Courageous: Being Daughters Rooted in Grace 6-Day Reading Plan. This plan can be spread out to incorporate a Book study with your CG Mamas too! To order, go here .

Making a Toolbox for Anxiety. This week on the blog, we are exploring how to empower our children to recognize worry and anxiety and equipping them with tools to walk through it. Read more here.
Resources to WATCH this month:
Today’s girls face a number of challenges we never dealt with at their age. From skyrocketing anxiety rates to bullying on social media to technology impact, the enemy’s lies are everywhere.

Join CG Co-Founder Terra Mattson for a FB Live about "Conversations about Racism" with guest, Joi Hailey on October 21st from 1:00 - 1:30pm on My Courageous Girls Facebook Page

"The Chosen" TV series about the life of Jesus. Bring HOPE into your home as you watch this incredible series as a family. Learn more here.
Resources to LISTEN to this month:

Curated podcast suggestions just for you! Listen with your favorite podcast player.

  • The Living Wholehearted Podcast. The LW Podcast includes insightful and engaging interviews with John Mark Comer, pastor and author of the Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, Robin Jones Gunn, author*, and more...  Subscribe to the podcast here so you don't miss one!
    *Robin Jones Gunn is the best-selling, award-winning Christian author of over 100 books, including the Christy Miller and Sierra Jensen series for teen girls as well as the Glenbrooke series and the Sisterchicks series. Terra leans into Robin's wisdom as she shares about her latest book on what a daughter needs from her mother.
  • Seeds Family Worship for free music!
  • The BibleProject is an artistic and succinct reading of the Bible.

Each month we will feature a mom/daughter duo from around the globe to share how they are experiencing God’s hope.

From Texas USA, Lorna Borger and her daughter Camille, a bright, compassionate, creative 4th grader who loves family dance parties, drawing and singing, have been involved with Courageous Girls for the past two years. Lorna shares how she is experiencing God’s hope during this season:

“I had a season a couple of years ago during which I was really struggling with insomnia. I would go day after day with only an hour or two of sleep, and I was completely and utterly exhausted. One night, as I was lying in bed at around 3am desperately praying for sleep, I had a profound experience of peace washing over me, and 2 Corinthians 12:9 came into my head as clearly as if someone was reading it to me:
‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’
It was during that same season that my daughter and I were memorizing the fruits of the spirit with our Courageous Girls group. On a daily, hourly, sometimes minute-by-minute basis, I was reminding myself that I may be tired and cranky and discouraged, but that in my weakness, God will provide love, joy, peace, patience, kindness… everything I need to be the mom and wife I so desire to be.
In this season of uncertainty with so many balls to juggle and so many people in my space ALL THE TIME, it seems one of the lessons the Lord is teaching me is to lean into His grace and find hope in the fact that I may not be sufficient for the demands and uncertainty of this season, but that it is when I am weak, that He is most strong.”

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