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Rooted in Grace                                     "Be loved and love well"                                               Issue 02

Did you know that virtual meetings take 3 times the amount of energy and focus than face-to-face meetings? It's because 85-90% of our communication is done through non-verbal cues: eye contact, facial expressions, body language, gestures, timing. This means:
 

  1. Our brains are trying to find the same meaning and connection though it's far more difficult to navigate over a device. (A reason why people use devices to hide too) @curt_thompson_md says it's like trying to use your cell phone in the middle of the woods with little to no signal. The device is working overtime to get you the same data.
     
  2. We are looking at ourselves while engaging others. I used to have to watch videos of myself counseling clients during grad school. The anxiety! Who wants to see their forehead wrinkles accentuated every time they show some concern?


As kids do online school and as parents continue the never-ending virtual meetings, try to innovate around having face-to-face connections whenever possible. Don't be surprised when your little one (or YOU) are more tired, grumpy, and overstimulated at the end of the day.

Though we hoped we'd be back to some sense of "normal", 2020 has stayed on brand. We were never made for a virtual world and though it's been so helpful to keep business, counseling, relationships going, we also need to remember what it's doing to our brains, our bodies, and our egos.

Because of Grace,
Jeff & Terra

 

Words of Love
"Rather, you must grow in the grace and knowledge
of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ."
- 2 Peter 3:18

Perhaps you are familiar with the Japanese tradition of transforming broken ceramic items by fusing them back together with beautiful gold paint to bring the item to wholeness in a magnificent way. Similarly, when God's grace fills in our brokenness, we are made new and transformed into His image through grace. In a magnificent way!

"And the vessel he was making of clay was spoiled in the potter's hand, and he reworked it into another vessel, as it seemed good to the potter to do." Jeremiah 18:4

"But he said to me, My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness, so that Christ's power may rest on me." 2 Corinthians 12:9

God is able to transform our brokenness into something beautiful for His glory. Through the cracks or mistakes, his grace is able to make us whole.

 

Grace is God's unmerited favor and undeserving love and goodness. It feels like being known and loved despite our behaviors (and we know our kids have some behaviors).

God does this perfectly, but giving grace to our kids can be as simple as saying “yes” instead of “no.” Cuddling or playing a game when they should be doing work. It might look like letting a chore go today or asking questions rather than giving a lecture. Sometimes it’s gifting our kids when they don’t deserve it and reminding them that this is how God blesses us - even when we don’t “deserve it.”

Lean into your CG Mama community for support and ideas too!

Jeff and Terra Mattson, Living Wholehearted and CG Founders, will be speaking at the online Perfectly Imperfect Christian Parenting Event on October 23-24th. This completely digital event was designed for parents like you as a time to set aside perfection and receive the practical and spiritual help we need during this season of life.

Early bird pricing ends TODAY!

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Join Terra Mattson and the CG coaches each month as they teach, inspire, and encourage CG leaders and mamas around the globe.
 

Facebook Live
September 16th at 1:00 p.m. PST

Is your anxiety high? Are you overwhelmed by the times? Do you need a day of rest and re-connection with our God? Do you just need to refocus?

Come enjoy a guided contemplative retreat among 5 acres of old growth woods in Sherwood wine country! Facilitated by author and co-founder of Living Wholehearted & Courageous Girls, Terra Mattson, this retreat integrates prayer, listening, worship, short reflections, art, and times of solitude. Perfect for any woman, young or seasoned who needs to be reminded of who she is and to whom she belongs! Register soon, space is limited.


Register for the Courageous Prayer Retreat on October 16th, 2020 at the Living Wholehearted Lodge & Retreat.

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It is our desire to love and equip our CG community of mamas and daughters around the globe wholly and fully, which includes ensuring we are sharing stories and resources that encompass all backgrounds and abilities of our CG community.

Resources to READ this month:  .

He Calls You By Name-30 Reminders of Your Identity in Christ cards for your daughters to remind them of their rooting in Christ. To order them go here .
For Girls Like You Magazine! This bi-monthly magazine is designed for girls ages 6-12! Inspiring stories on what God is doing in the world, and a whole lot more! To subscribe, visit here

Resources to WATCH this month:
Today’s girls face a number of challenges we never dealt with at their age. From skyrocketing anxiety rates to bullying on social media to technology impact, the enemy’s lies are everywhere.
 
Dannah Gresh and her team are hosting an online study called Lies Girls Believe Online Bible Study—a 6-week webinar for tween girls and their moms from September 14th -October 19th from 6:30-7:30 pm EST! To learn more visit here.
 

Resources to LISTEN to this month:
Curated podcast suggestions just for you! Listen with your favorite podcast player.

Each month we will feature a mom/daughter duo from around the globe to share how they are experiencing God’s grace.

Amy Sheldon and her daughter Sydney are entering their third year of Courageous Girls. Amy is a co-leader for Sydney’s group and shares “I am thankful for gentle reminders of God's grace during this season. For the way God is revealing his heart for my daughter through the relationships within our CG group.  I am being encouraged to see her more through his eyes and check my own imperfect lens. He knew how much we both needed to be part of this community!

Tag @mycourageousgirls to share your CG story.

Courageous:
Being Daughters Rooted in Grace

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Between What Leaders Preach & Live
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